Proverbs 15:4 A gentle tongue is a tree of life; But perverseness therein is a breaking of the spirit". Its human nature, people will never find your words pleasing but if for any reason you are in the middle of confrontation-give life. Tree of life was created by God in the garden of Eden its main purpose was to give eternal life. As Godlikes we can give life with our tongues if not we will break a spirit just as the devil did to Adam and Eve. P.s. in Christianity, our words are our currency.