Hebrews 4:12 "The word of God is alive and active, sharper than any double-edged sword.....Keeping unacceptable things in you only eats you up and one day it will either damage or destroy you. That is why its better to talk to qualify person like a councillor or church leader. The right words will heal a soul and sweet words will strengthen your soul. P.s take advice from those that are qualified to help you. (Thank God for Margaret Thatcher) http://greaterworking.blogspot.co.uk